Friday, October 30, 2009

My kind of candy corn

I have mentioned previously that I am no fan of candy corn, but I like the look of it. So today I made sugar cookies that look like candy corn - now that is candy corn I can (and will) sink my teeth into!


Look out, Martha Stewart!

Sunday, October 25, 2009

A good day

Yesterday was a very good football day for me. Ohio State won, and both Michigan and Michigan State lost:
    Ohio State - 38, Minnesota - 7

    Iowa - 15, Michigan State - 13

    Penn State - 35, Michigan - 10

Some days, that is all it takes to make me smile. And this Ohio State football season, the smiles are few and far between.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Fire safety

Aidan and his classmates have been learning about fire safety - always a useful topic. He mapped out escape routes from the house and we set a family meeting place.

Today he brought home this picture of firefighters putting out a house fire:

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Weekend in New York

Last Thursday, Aidan and I flew to New York to spend a long weekend with James. Hooter County schools had a student holiday on Friday and we decided that Aidan could also miss school on Thursday.

We flew into Rochester, because Rochester typically has better airfares than Syracuse, so James had to drive about an hour and a half to pick us up. It was so good to see him after four long weeks! We drove to his apartment in Baldwinsville and then stretched our legs by walking around the village. So charming! I adore the mix of house styles and like that we could be in "downtown" Baldwinsville in just a few steps. We had pizza for dinner, then walked back home.

On Friday, James went into work for the morning so Aidan and I walked around the village. I got a delicious cup of coffee from Shamballa Cafe, and we walked to a park right by the Seneca River.


There were geese in the river and on the riverbank; I stopped counting when I reached 100. Aidan played in the playground while I sipped my coffee and enjoyed the scenery. It was a chilly morning, but the sun was shining and it was beautiful.

James picked us up and we went to Sal's Fish Fry in Syracuse for fish sandwiches and slaw. Yum! He took us to his workplace for us to do a Meet and Greet; we walked all through the office meeting James' coworkers and staff. Everyone was very nice but don't ask me to remember anyone's name!

We then went to Onondaga Lake Park in Liverpool. Although several of the attracitons were already closed for the season, we enjoyed walking through the park and admiring the fall colors. Aidan paused from playing long enough to have his photo made with James:


Back in Baldwinsville, we did a bit more exploring before my feet completely gave out. Lock E24 on the Erie Canal is located in B'ville and while we did not get to see a boat go through the lock, it was still quite interesting.


We ate burgers at Zebb's for dinner - yum! - then called it a night. After a hearty breakfast at the B'ville Diner on Saturday morning, we headed up to Oswego so Aidan could see his first Great Lake:


He was very impressed with the size of Lake Ontario and declared it "cool". We spent most of the morning wandering around Fort Ontario. Aidan liked going into the casements and pretended to shoot the bad guys with the cannon:


We drove back to Syracuse for a late lunch at the famed Dinosaur BBQ. While very good (but also very crowded and VERY loud), it doesn't rate anywhere near delicious Eastern North Carolina barbecue. Sorry, folks.

We took it easy the rest of Saturday with only a short walk around the village and snacks for dinner. On Sunday morning, we drove back to Rochester where Aidan and I sadly got on the airplace and flew back to Georgia. It was a delightful weekend, although way too short, but at least we know we will be back home in New York in only two months.

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Never underestimate the power of a good haircut

It has been a rough couple of weeks for me. Oh, who am I kidding, it's really been a rough couple of years for me. But the last few weeks have been tougher than usual and I have felt my old nemeses, the demons of depression, creeping up on me.

After Aidan was born, I developed postpartum depression. What a rude surprise, given that I had never experienced depression prior to that time. It took a compassionate pediatrician kicking my butt and a multi-month regimen of Prozac to get me back to my old self, but the doctor warned me that I would thereafter be prone to depression.

She wasn't kidding.

At least now I recognize when the demons are creeping up and I know what to do: I can either try to drive them away using my superhero powers or, if there are too many of them and the threat is too great, I can temporarily use pharmaceutical weapons. Last week I decided that I would try to beat them using brute strength and try to avoid the med route. I am kind of doing tough love on myself, thinking that if I act like I am doing well, then maybe I will start feeling well.

So far, it is working and I am feeling better…and it also helps that I FINALLY got a decent haircut on Friday! It is a long [translation: boring] story of how I found Randy, but thank goodness I did find him. He gave me the best haircut I have had since leaving Raleigh over four years ago. I feel as chic as a forty-ish small-town mom can probably feel and, more importantly, I can style it well myself!

Of course, I am annoyed that I found Randy just as I am exiting the area but at least I will exit with a great 'do.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

A change in plans

James and I don't pretend that we know everything or that we always make the right decision the first time, but we are willing to admit when we are wrong or when we need to alter our plans.

We are admitting that this living apart thing just isn't working out. James misses Aidan and me, we miss James, and getting together for one weekend a month isn't enough. Aidan is particularly suffering from this temporary separation. While he is doing very well academically, his behavior at school is getting worse rather than better. Two trips to the office in two days last week was enough to convince us that we need to make some changes.

Our original plan was that Aidan and I would stay here in Georgia until the house sells, believing that leaving a house empty to sell is not a wise idea...but we have come to realize that living apart is not a wise idea for us. We are now planning to move Aidan, Spenser and me with a small subset of our stuff to New York during the Christmas holidays, whether the house has sold or not, so Aidan can start school in New York on the first day of school in 2010. When the house sells, we will return to Georgia to pack up the furniture and the rest of our stuff.

I feel so relieved. I now have a goal to work towards, and hopefully that light at the end of the tunnel is not a train.